What are the things that are important to your self-worth? How many ‘slices’ have you got in your self-worth pie chart? Is controlling eating, shape and weight in one slice? Is it very much larger than the other slices? If this is the case, then you are banking on this ONE area of your life to work out for you so that you can believe that you are of worth.
You may also have other interests and things in your life, but over time, perhaps these have taken a lesser place.
One important and effective way of reducing your over-evaluation of body shape and weight (and their control) is to begin to extend the other areas of your life – enlarging the other slices of your pie, so to speak.
When you start doing this and keep at it, you will find that your life becomes more balanced and you will feel more content over time.